You should know that as an absolute matter of principle we refuse to say “pretend.”
We also won’t say dip her or jump in the air either. That’s because we believe that everything that makes love beautiful and a story worth telling, is also what makes it unstaged, imperfect, and real.
While we're at it, we will also never ask you to do anything too stiff or posey. And the only kind of “cheese” we like is the Robusto from Whole Foods paired with a delightful fig jam. Which we will undoubtedly serve to you when you come over to meet with us. Along with our favorite Sauv Blanc.
— Ashley, Past Bride
“Even before we had a date, I knew I HAD to be a J&M Bride!”
— Rachel, Past Bride
“You have a way of making everyone around you feel at ease.”
We're Justin & Mary — J&M, for short. We're just Two preppy introverts who fell in love... both with light and each other. We love front porch sitting, long walks on the sea wall, and fluffy golden retrievers.
But that's not all...
RIT grad, Enneagram 9 (with a strong wing 1), Jersey boy at heart who still loves Bon Jovi, Leica aficionado, light whisperer, drinks ginger beer & lime, connoisseur of pizza.
Meet the photographers
Justin:
mary:
Yale law grad, Enneagram 4 (with a strong wing 3), grew up in a single-wide trailer in WV, 3x bestselling author, podcast host, kitchen dancer, speaks fluent movie quote.
NAMED AS ONE OF PROFOTO'S
“I see love, because I have known love. Quietly and fearlessly and without question. In the moments when it was most uncertain, in the times when it was most undeserved.”
— mary Marantz
the
INSPIR
ATION
Vanity Fair / Architecture / Italy / Salt Water/ London / Irving Penn / Great food / Movies / The Light at Yale / Nantucket / 1950s Fashion/ Nancy Meyers Interiors / Coastal Grandmother Aesthetic
what we're known for
classic style
weekend indulgence
oysters
KNOWN TO SPLURGE ON
burberry
our 1880's fixer upper
BY THE SEA
saving up for a
hinckley
only place we'll move to
nantucket
ATTICUS & GOODSPEED
the goldens
ENTIRELY UNDERRATED
thrifting
“He takes my hand and we walk. Out into the uncertain, out into the unknown. But walking, always walking, in the direction of our dreams. I talk and he listens. Talk about everything, talk about nothing. Talk until the whole world makes sense again.”
— mary Marantz